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KATIE VS MEN

Is honesty always the best policy?

Katie Michaels

by Katie Michaels, DERF Lifestyle Columnist
 
Well, if you're under oath, sure.  But if you just have this overwhelming desire to spill your guts about everything "bad" you've ever done, tell your therapist, your priest, your dog -  NOT your boyfriend!  The first three won't leave you, your boyfriend might.  And whatever you do, don't write it in your diary!

Take this phrase to heart; learn it, and live it - "sometimes it's better to let sleeping dogs lie" (a very wise man once told me that).  Some things really are better left unsaid.  What's the point in bringing up the past?  You can't change it; it's over and done with.  So, why put unpleasant and unnecessary images in your guy's…

About Katie Michaels  

Katie Michaels

Katie's blog is considered by the majority of the Derf staff to be intolerable chick stuff.  Despite this criticism Katie perseveres and delivers what her readers feel is an insightful and helpful relationship commentary.  Katie's attractiveness often creates tension between male staff members.  This is controlled primarily through tazing.

Comment, critique, & ask questions on Katie's Message Forum in the Derf Message Boards.

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