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4 things you should never ask your boyfriend

Katie Michaels

By Katie Michaels, Derf Relationship Blogger

Women value honesty and openness in relationships.  It can be difficult for us to be in a relationship and feel we have to avoid certain topics we may curious about.  It feels unnatural.  But this is simply how the world and relationships work.  Lots of valuable and worthwhile behaviors can feel unnatural at first. This is one of those things so try to understand and embrace it.

Men are different from us and it is important to understand that generally speaking there are some topics that you shouldn't press to discuss.  These are topics that can make men uncomfortable.  Pressing your boyfriend to discuss them can actually push him away from…

About Katie Michaels  

Katie Michaels

Katie's blog is considered by the majority of the Derf staff to be intolerable chick stuff.  Despite this criticism Katie perseveres and delivers what her readers feel is an insightful and helpful relationship commentary.  Katie's attractiveness often creates tension between male staff members.  This is controlled primarily through tazing.

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